■ When either of you are leaving for work or starting a project
■ When either of you are solving issues with your kids
■ In front of others (resolving conflict in front of kids is good from time to time if it is done in a healthy way. It allows them to see how it’s done!)
■ When either of you have just gotten home and stepped into the door
■ When either of you are at low resources (HALTS: Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired, Sick or
Stressed)
■ Just before you go to sleep
■ Before during intimacy or sex
■ On the way to church
Of course there are other times when you KNOW that it’s not appropriate because of the situation and that is the time to use compassion and grace and wait until the timing is better. If you don’t have the first clue on how to resolve conflict in a healthy way either because it is a new relationship, or you never learned how in your marriage or maybe your relationship is struggling, in our 2.5 day Couples Training we teach couples simple tools on how to communicate their needs and desires, resolve conflict and set boundaries in our Couples Training. For info or to register go to www.creatingintimacyandrespect.com
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■ Just before you go to sleep
■ Before during intimacy or sex
■ On the way to church
Of course there are other times when you KNOW that it’s not appropriate because of the situation and that is the time to use compassion and grace and wait until the timing is better. If you don’t have the first clue on how to resolve conflict in a healthy way either because it is a new relationship, or you never learned how in your marriage or maybe your relationship is struggling, in our 2.5 day Couples Training we teach couples simple tools on how to communicate their needs and desires, resolve conflict and set boundaries in our Couples Training. For info or to register go to www.creatingintimacyandrespect.com
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