by Amy Ensminger1. Talk about your needs vs. desires
2. Implement “behavior change request” with “consequences”
3. Learn how to compromise
4. STOP unrealistic expectations (See # 1)
5. Understand the difference between hoping, demanding & asking for something
6. Remember no one can read your mind – if you didn't talk about your needs & desires, you can’t expect it (See # 1)
7. Learn the art of contentment & joy
8. Be accepting of others and situations (See # 7)
9. Be emotionally present with your mate & others
10. Engage in conversations
11. Be approachable & accessible to your mate & others
12. Keep your word: Make sure your mate & others can count on you
13. Check yourself: In this situation, are you being too critical or judgmental?
(For #1 through #13 you learn more information & tools by attending our Couples Training)
SUGGESTION & HOMEWORK:
The simple rule of minimizing disappointment is to be responsible and accountable to one person…that’s YOU and your expectations and behaviors that cause disappointments! The above is a great way to minimize disappointment in your relationship if you and your mate follow these basic guidelines! The absolute best thing that I know of that you and your mate can do if you struggle with disappointments, unrealistic expectations OR you want to know how to avoid this pitfall in your relationship is to attend our next Couples Training on October 19-21, 2012. It's the perfect fast-track to success in creating hope and joy in your relationship. Don’t wait; reserve your seats today by registering at www.creatingintimacyandrespect.com!
The simple rule of minimizing disappointment is to be responsible and accountable to one person…that’s YOU and your expectations and behaviors that cause disappointments! The above is a great way to minimize disappointment in your relationship if you and your mate follow these basic guidelines! The absolute best thing that I know of that you and your mate can do if you struggle with disappointments, unrealistic expectations OR you want to know how to avoid this pitfall in your relationship is to attend our next Couples Training on October 19-21, 2012. It's the perfect fast-track to success in creating hope and joy in your relationship. Don’t wait; reserve your seats today by registering at www.creatingintimacyandrespect.com!
About the Author
David & Amy Ensminger are founders of Creating Intimacy & Respect which provides a 2.5-Day Couples Training and 1-Day Relationship Workshop's for Singles & Couples. For more information go to www.creatingintimacyandrespect.com
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