Thursday, September 29, 2011

Ways to show RESPECT to your mate

  • Tell him “thank you” for going to work, protecting & providing for you (and the family)
  • Don’t complain about the finances, his job or having to work
  • Cheer his successes whether in business, dreams, a sport or hobby
  • Praise his good decisions and support him in the poor ones
  • Don’t continually "have a better idea"
  • Talk to him in a LOVING tone
  • Laugh at his jokes
  • Compliment & honor him in front of others
  • Disagree with him in private
  • Let him do tasks his own way
  • Ask him for his opinion & try to fulfill his suggestion
  • Tell him you like him
  • In problems, do 3 things: Be friendly. Be friendly. Be friendly.
  • Let him fix things & applaud his solutions
  • Thank him for his advice & knowledge
  • Do things with him or watch him do them (I don't like to fish. I do go from time to time without complaining or nagging and hang out with David when he fishes -- he likes that!)
  • Initiate sex with him
  • Respond to his playfulness more often
  • Support his decisions
  • Don’t say the words, "I told you so"
  • Encourage him to talk about his dreams (LISTEN without being critical of them!)

Homework idea: These are some of our suggestions, have your mate tell you the top 5 are for him.

To learn what your mate needs to feel respected check our website for the next training date @ www.creatingintimacyandrespect.com

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