- Tell him “thank you” for going to work, protecting & providing for you (and the family)
- Don’t complain about the finances, his job or having to work
- Cheer his successes whether in business, dreams, a sport or hobby
- Praise his good decisions and support him in the poor ones
- Don’t continually "have a better idea"
- Talk to him in a LOVING tone
- Laugh at his jokes
- Compliment & honor him in front of others
- Disagree with him in private
- Let him do tasks his own way
- Ask him for his opinion & try to fulfill his suggestion
- Tell him you like him
- In problems, do 3 things: Be friendly. Be friendly. Be friendly.
- Let him fix things & applaud his solutions
- Thank him for his advice & knowledge
- Do things with him or watch him do them (I don't like to fish. I do go from time to time without complaining or nagging and hang out with David when he fishes -- he likes that!)
- Initiate sex with him
- Respond to his playfulness more often
- Support his decisions
- Don’t say the words, "I told you so"
- Encourage him to talk about his dreams (LISTEN without being critical of them!)
Homework idea: These are some of our suggestions, have your mate tell you the top 5 are for him.
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