- What's wrong with you?
- I wish you were more like ____________ (your mother/father or my mother/father, etc.)
- All you ever do is complain
- I can never please you
- You always do...
- You always say...
- You always do/say that wrong
- ANYTHING disrespectful or unloving!
- I can fix that for you if you'll just let me
- Hurry up and...
- We are always waiting on you to ...
- Jealousy or mistrusting statements
- I wish we'd never met
- I hate you
- Nagging, Pouting, Critical statements (or actions)
- NEVER be unwilling to apologize! (remember the apology process we teach in the training)
- I don't know if I even love you
- My dad/mom was right about you
- What did you expect?
- You got what you deserve
- You're lazy (stupid, crazy, an idiot…)
- You're irresponsible
- You're impossible
- I don't why I put up with you;
- I’m leaving;
- I’m out of here;
- I’m not doing this anymore
- Any other “D” word phrases!
- You never do/say __________
- You always do/say _________
- You sound/act just like your mother/father!
- Abusive words of ANY kind!
- I blame you for that
If you struggle with any of these relationship sabotaging statements or words register for our next training. For info go to: www.creatingintimacyandrespect.com
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