Remember when you first got together? You just couldn't get enough time with one another.
Re-create boundaries by reserving time for your mate & not giving in to the distractions of life. That may mean
- Turning down a committee you'd love to serve on;
- Stop coaching a little league team;
- Missing out on a night out with the girls or guys;
- Spend less time on a hobby;
- Pushing away from your computer, TV, texting or iphone;
- Stop going to the gym that extra hour or day;
- Less shopping with your friends;
- Not playing fantasy football or a video game;
- Not let our kids talk us into something we really don't HAVE to do.
It may mean that you have to start turning down the good, great and fun ... or even time-wasters that choke out intimacy with our mate.
So what are some other time-wasters that can get in the way of creating intimacy with your mate?
If you don't know how to create this type of intimacy with your mate or you just can't seem to get your mate to understand how important it is to you, come to our next couples training. For info go to www.creatingintimacyandrespect.com.
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